Dear Heather,
My husband and I have been together for four years. Each of those years we have gone to my husband’s sister’s home for Thanksgiving. She is a gracious hostess and we all have a fabulous time. This year, however, I have the cooking itch. I would love to begin hosting a Thanksgiving of my own. I am so concerned that I will step on my in-laws toes by ruining a tradition that I am afraid to ask for a turn cooking the bird. Do you have any advice?
Sincerely, Scared Sis
Dear Sis,
The holidays are filled with traditions, obligations, excitement and feelings. I would say that with Thanksgiving right around the corner, wait. Wait until the holiday is over and you can broach the subject. You can see if your family is open to trading years, if not, maybe you take another holiday. You can always offer your help in her kitchen as well or cook a separate meal for left overs. The important piece is that you spend time together, enjoying your loved ones and what is surrounding you. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
Heather
